Stories We Tell
Director: Sarah Polley
By Alex Watson
Families are always full of different tales; normally ones that make us cringe with embarrassment, particularly when my family gets together! But often there are some family tales that really takes us by surprise and through these deep secrets are often revealed and on occasions lives can change forever. Canadian director/actress Sarah Polley this year returns to our screen to give us a unique insight into her own past and the events that helped shape the person she is in her compelling documentary, Stories We Tell.
In this film Sarah Polley documents her family past through the assistance of her own family members and other treasured acquaintances from down the years. Along the way many shocking and surprising revelations are put into view as her family recalls their past and their feelings towards the mother and father who raised them.
To begin with I would like to say that we will not find a greater documentary this than Stories We Tell and Polley’s examination of her own family life is a tale that truly needs to be heard and it will both warm and devastate your heart at separate points. The recollections of her English father Michael provide us with some of the film’s most funny and poignant moments as he speaks with great fondness about her mother Diane Polley, other family members are initially hesitant at first, some joking about why people should care about this? But ultimately as the stories go on, we are enchanted by Sarah’s family and their live is one of the most interesting tales we will see in a while!
Her mother is a shadow that looms over the movie and people speak about her with such touching affection and her father’s stories of how they first met are the stuff that romantic comedies would die for- his confession that he lied about having a Mercedes to make her go home with him is guaranteed to make you chuckle! But through the footage Polley has available, her mother Diane is a figure that Sarah is still getting to know (she died when Polley was 11) and she looks to her other family members to give us a better idea of the real person behind the wordless scenes.
Through her showing of old super 8 family movies, witness testimony and her reconstruction of old family events we feel like we are spying on private family moments, but Polley through her assured direction has nothing she want to hide and instinctively digs into one key in her past which begun with the smallest of rumours from one of her brothers. From here I will stop recalling the plot line because there is a jewel of a revelation here that you need to witness for yourself on screen and for this I would urge you to ignore all search engines until you step out from the film because the after effect is one that will stay with you for the coming days!
But in Stories We Tell, refreshingly Polley leaves it to her father to narrate proceedings and through his words we get a profound sense of love, loss, doubts to finally being able to embrace life. Here however there are no lengthy explanations about the various storytellers on show- they are all people who have played a significant part in her life and she relys them as key tools in her narrative and through this trust a fascinating tale is born.
For this movie I will leave you these words, I URGE YOU TO GO WATCH THIS- Stories We Tell is one of the best discoveries you will make all year. Sarah Polley is one of the budding talents we have in the film world and after her excellent film Take This Waltz last year we have yet more proof that not only she is not only capable of producing some the most emotionally real work but she is fast becoming a favourite on Closer to the Edge. When this is over, look into your own past because you may be amazed by what you find there!